Friday 11 April 2014

HOW TO DEVELOP A PLEASANT PERSONALITY ???


      IN OUR DAILY LIFE WE MEET MANY PEOPLE BUT FEW OF THEM ARE VERY IMPRESSIVE .FOR THEM WE OFTEN SAY  'WHAT A PLEASANT PERSONALITY'.
FRIENDS,PEOPLE WHO HAVE THIS TYPE OF PERSONALITY THEY ARE ALWAYS HAPPY,THEY ARE RESPECTED EVERYWHERE,THEY ARE LIKED BY EVERY ONE,THEY ARE SPECIALLY CALLED IN PARTIES,EVEN THEY GET PROMOTION IN THEIR JOBS. SOMETIMES WE THINK 'I WISH I HAD SUCH PERSONALITY'.BUT DID YOU EVER REALISED YOU CAN ALSO HAVE A PLEASANT PERSONALITY.
FRIENDS,HERE I AM SHARING SOME POINTS OF AN ARTICLE WHICH CAN HELP YOU TO BECOME A PLEASANT PERSONALITY.


1. MEET EVERYONE WITH A GENUINE SMILE ON YOUR FACE :   

-  A SMILE SHOWS WE ARE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN MEETING AND WE LIKE THE PERSON WHOM WE ARE MEETING.LIKE THIS PEOPLE WILL START LIKING YOU,THEY WILL BE HAPPY TO MEET YOU.
FRIENDS,SMILEY FACES ARE ALWAYS LIKED EVERYWHERE.AND WHEN YOU WILL GIVE A SMILE OTHER PERSON WILL ALSO GIVE A SMILE TO YOU.BUT MAKE SURE YOUR SMILE SHOULD NOT BE FAKE,IT SHOULD BE GENUINE

A GREAT MAN SAID-' WHENEVER I MEET ANYONE ,I JUST THINK I M MEETING THE MOST IMP PERSON OF THIS WORLD.THIS FEELING BRINGS A GREAT SMILE ON MY FACE'.

2.GENUINELY LIKE OTHERS -  

- WHEN WE MEET ANYONE WE CREATE AN IMAGE OF THAT PERSON THAT IMAGE MAY BE POSITIVE,NEGATIVE OR NEUTRAL.BUT IF YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY ,YOU WILL HAVE TO ALWAYS MAKE THIS IMAGE INTENTIONALLY POSITIVE.WE HAVE TO TRAIN OUR MIND FOR FINDING GOOD THINGS ABOUT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING.


FRIENDS,THERE IS A LOT OF NEGATIVITY AROUND US.EVEN PEOPLE DO NOT TRUST EACH OTHER.I AM NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD TRUST BLINDLY  ANYONE BUT YOU SHOULD NOT DISTRUST EVERYONE.BECAUSE THERE ARE ALSO A LOT OF GOOD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.SO ALWAYS SEE THE POSITIVE SIDE OF EVERYONE.

3.ALWAYS KEEP "YOU" BEFORE "I" -



- WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET A PERSON WHO ALWAYS TALK ABOUT HIMSELF OR A PERSON WHO TALKS ABOUT YOUR BENEFIT AND INTEREST??

 OF COURSE YOU WOULD LIKE TO MEET FIRST ONE.EVERYBODY WANTS TO KEEP HIMSELF FIRST,BUT YOU DO DIFFERENT,ALWAYS KEEP "YOU" BEFORE "I".


I BET BY DOING THIS PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOU.


4.FIND WHAT CAN YOU APPRECIATE IN OTHERS :



- FRIENDS,IN THIS WORLD EVERYBODY WANTS TO HEAR COMPLIMENTS.AND THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO WIN OTHERS HEART .JUST FIND WHAT CAN YOU APPRECIATE IN OTHERS.BUT BE SURE THE COMPLIMENT SHOULD NOT BE FAKE AND DO NOT MAKE IT LIKE FLATTERING.


IT MUST BE TRUE OR GENUINE.AND FRIENDS IF YOU TRY TO FIND GOOD THINGS TO PRAISE YOU WILL DEFINITELY BE ABLE TO FIND MANY THINGS TO APPRECIATE.


5.HELP OTHERS WITHOUT CONDITION :


- SOMETIMES WE CAN HELP OTHERS BUT WE DO NOT HELP BECAUSE WE DONT FIND OUR PROFIT IN THAT.BUT IF YOU CAN HELP ANYONE JUST BY GIVING YOUR TIME YOU MUST HELP. BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE A POSITIVE IMAGE OF YOURS AND WILL GIVE YOU A CONFIDENCE AND SATISFACTION.

       
6.  BE A GOOD LISTENER :

-FRIENDS A GOOD LISTENER IS ALWAYS NEEDED EVERYWHERE. BECAUSE IN THIS WORLD THERE IS LAKE OF GOOD LISTENERS.AND EVERYONE WANTS AN AUDIENCE WEATHER ITS ACTOR,CRICKETER,OR A COMMON MAN,AND YOU BECOME THEIR AUDIENCE, PEOPLE WILL START LOVING YOU.

7.MAKE YOUR EXTERNAL APPEARANCE GOOD:


- HENCE OUR LOOKS PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN OUR PERSONALITY SO YOU WILL HAVE TO GIVE EXTRA ATTENTION ON THIS POINT.ALWAYS DRESS-UP ACCORDING TO OCCASION AND BE HYGIENIC AND CLEAN.WEAR POLISHED SHOES AND CLEAN CLOTHS.


              SO FRIENDS THESE WERE SOME IMP POINTS OF AN ARTICLE WHICH CAN HELP YOU TO BE A PLEASANT PERSONALITY.I HOPE THESE WILL HELP YOU.NOW YOU START PRACTICING THESE POINTS AND APPLY THEM IN YOUR DAILY LIFE.

ALL THE BEST.......

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