HOW TO BE POSITIVE IN LIFE???

     hello friends,today i met a person who is very rich,who has everything in his life but he is not happy.i was surprised why this man is so unhappy while he is not having any problem in his life.i started observing his behaviour then i realised the problem is not in his life but the problem is there in his thinking.he is so negative that he is not able to feel happiness.
     
          and trust me friends there are a lot of people in this world who are suffering this disease called 'negative thinking'.sometimes their thinking becomes a barrier in their success.this thinking lead them to dissatisfaction and failure and then people gradually lose their hope,confidence and sometimes life.

       now i tell you how to get rid of this 'negative thinking'.friends you dont know you have a factory,and you are the owner of this factory.surprised? but its true and your factory is your 'brain'.yes,your brain is a factory where about 60000 thoughts are produced daily.and you don't know this also that you have two servants who manage your factory and production of thoughts.do you want to know their names??
i tell you,their names are -

1. MR HAPPY- mr happy manages the production of positive thoughts.he tells you about positive aspect of everything and every situation.he tells about benefits of things.he tells why we should do .he encourage us for doing anything.he make us feel happy.mr happy lead us towards succes and happyness.all happy and successful people hired him to control their whole factory of brain.

2. MR UNHAPPY-mr unhappy controls the production of negative thoughts.he tell us about negative aspect of everything.he tells us why we should not to do.he tells about lose.he tells about lack.he keep remembering all bad incidents of life and keep making sad.he never let us enjoy anything.he is enemy of optimism.

         now you have to decide that whom do want to hire for whole production of your factory.let me tell you whomever you will give the charge he will become strong and gradually will start managing whole factory .friends just think if you appoint mr happy to control thoughts then you will produce about 60000 positive thoughts and this will change your attitude towards things.
         
       just do one exercise,today just think its a nice day and everything is going well and then mr happy will start telling you why this day is good.then you will see really everything is getting well.so just from now you appoint mr happy to produce positive thoughts.and start thinking positive.

     
         
      

HOW TO BECOME MORE SUCCESSFUL ???

             5 RULES TO BE SUCCESSFUL

           

FRIENDS,NOW A DAYS THE LIFE HAS BECOME A RACE AND EVERYBODY WANTS TO WIN .TODAY I AM SHARING 5 IMPORTANT RULES WHICH ARE TAKEN FROM AN ARTICLE AND  MUST BE HELPFUL FOR YOU TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR LIFE.APPLY THESE 5 RULES IN YOUR LIFE TO BE SUCCESSFUL.MANY PEOPLE HAVE APPLIED THESE RULES AND  IMPROVED THEIR WORK AND LIFE.

THESE RULES ARE -

1. CONCENTRATE ON ONE THING AT A TIME -     FRIENDS MANY PEOPLE OF THE WORLD  FAIL BECAUSE THEY TRY TO DO MANY TASKS AT A TIME. WE SHOULD USE OUR ALL ENERGY AND ZEAL TO DO ONE TASK AT A TIME.AND WHEN YOU WILL DO THAT WITH FULL CONCENTRATION THAT TASK WILL BECOME BEST AUTOMATICLY.

2. KEEP IMPROVING YOUR WORK -    A LITTLE EFFORT CAN MAKE YOU GOOD AND SOME MORE EFFORT CAN MAKE YOU BEST BUT  YOU CAN BE GREAT IF YOU KEEP TRYING REGULARLY THROUGHOUT  THE LIFE.THERE IS NO SHORTCUT.FUNDA IS THAT SKILL COMES AFTER 10000 HOURS PRACTICE.


3.  WIN THE TRUST OF OTHER'S -    ALWAYS SPEAK TRUTH TO EVERYONE AND RESPECT THEIR FEELINGS.DO NOT EXPECT FULL TRUST SPEAKING HALF TRUTH.DO NOT PROMISE ANYTHING TO ANYONE IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO DO SO, SO THINK BEFORE PROMISE TO ANYONE.BE THE MAN OF WORD.


4. FOCUS ON LESS CHOICES -    DECISIONS ARE AFFECTED BY MANY CHOICES.IT CREATES CONDITION OF  UNCERTAINTY,DOUBTS AND INERTNESS.IF YOU ARE TAKING A DECISION IN LIFE THEN DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME IN ANALYZING ALL CHOICES DEEPLY.JUST DECIDE ONE THING AND START WORKING ON IT.FOCUS ON FEWER THINGS AND GIVE YOUR BEST.


5.  SELECT BEST TOOLS -  ALWAYS USE BEST TOOLS IN YOUR LIFE WHICH ARE ACTUALLY NEEDED.ALWAYS RETAIN ONE THING THAT FOR CUTTING A THICK WOOD, A NEW AXE IS REQUIRED NOT AN OLD AXE.DO NOT LET YOUR WEAKNESS GROW.IF THERE IS NO TOOL ACCORDING TO YOUR WORK THEN USE A NEW ONE. 


SO FRIEND I HOPE THIS ARTICLE WILL HELP YOU.ALL THE BEST.......

A MOTIVATIONAL STORY OF THOMAS ALVA EDISON

        GREAT SCIENTIST THOMAS EDISON COULD READ ONLY THREE MONTHS IN THE SCHOOL REGULARLY.HE WAS NOT ABLE TO HEAR CLEARLY DUE TO SOME PROBLEM IN HIS EARS SO HIS MOVEMENTS SEEMED FOOLISH SOMETIMES.EVEN  HE WAS NOT ABLE TO HEAR HIS TEACHERS VOICE SO HE WAS PUNISHED.
                                 
                                  ONCE HE RETURNED FROM SCHOOL WITH A NOTE OF HIS TEACHER TO HIS MOTHER THAT - 'YOUR CHILD IS FOOL,GET HIM OUT OF THIS SCHOOL.'

                       HIS MOTHER DECIDED TO TEACH HIM AT HOME.SO AFTER THAT HE STUDIED AT HOME AND TODAY THAT FOOL BOY IS KNOWN AS 'THE GREAT SCIENTIST THOMAS ALVA EDISON'.MORE THAN 1000 PATENTS ARE REGISTERED WITH HIS NAME.
   
                     THAT SILLY BOY WAS SO STRONG THAT WHEN IN THE YEAR 1914 HIS FACTORY HAD BURNED AND HE LOST HIS ALL HIS SAVINGS,HE JUST SAID -'DESTRUCTION ALSO HAS A SIGNIFICANCE THAT ALL OUR MISTAKES ALSO HAVE BURNED WITH THIS FACTORY WHICH WE HAVE DONE EARLIER IN THE PAST.'

                 AND AFTER 3 WEEKS HE RETURNED WITH A NEW DISCOVERY OF PHONE.IT IS A TRUE STORY OF DETERMINATION AND HARD WORK.WHICH SAID THAT WILLPOWER OF A MAN CAN OVERCOME ALL THE PROBLEMS OF LIFE.WILLPOWER NEGATES ANY KIND OF  HURDLES.
         
        LIFE IS ALL ABOUT TRYING AND DOING BEST REGULARLY.SO WE SHOULD DO GOOD, WE SHOULD FEEL GOOD AND ONE DAY WILL COME WHEN POSITIVE RESULT WILL COME OUT.AND FROM THAT DAY THE FRAGRANCE OF SUCCESS WILL SPREAD IN YOUR LIFE.

HOW LUCKY ARE YOU???

              REASONS TO FEEL LUCKY TODAY

1.  IF YOU HAVE WELCOMED TODAY'S MORNING OWNING A HEALTHY BODY THEN  YOU ARE VERY LUCKY BECAUSE TILL THE END OF THIS WEEK A LOT OF PEOPLE  WILL LOSE THEIR LIVES DUE TO POOR HEALTH.

    

2.   IF YOU HAVE NEVER FELT THE DANGER OF WAR,LONELINESS OF PRISON,PAIN OF TORTURE,AND THE PANG OF HUNGER THEN YOU ARE BETTER  THAN THOSE 50 CRORE PEOPLE WHO DAILY FEEL SOMETHING LIKE THIS.

 3.   IF  THERE ARE ADEQUATE FOOD IN YOUR KITCHEN , YOU HAVE CLOTHES ON YOUR BODY, ROOF OVER YOUR HEAD,AND YOU HAVE ENOUGH SPACE TO SLEEP THEN YOU  ARE VERY LUCKY BECAUSE YOU ARE AHEAD OF THOSE 75% PEOPLE OF  THE WORLD WHO DO NOT HAVE THESE THINGS IN THEIR LIFE.

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 4.   IF YOU ARE ABLE TO SEE YOUR PARENTS WITH YOU OR YOU ARE LIVING WITH THEM  THEN YOUR LIFE IS PROSPEROUS BECAUSE MANY PEOPLE ARE THERE IN THIS WORLD WHO WERE  NOT ABLE TO SEE EVEN FACE OF THEIR  PARENTS.

 5.  IF YOU CAN READ THIS ARTICLE THEN YOU ARE BETTER THAN THOSE 2 BILLION PEOPLE OF THE WORLD WHO CAN NOT EVEN READ OR WRITE.

        

            SO IF YOU HAVE ALL THESE THINGS OR ANY OF THESE THEN YOU SHOULD SAY THANK YOU TO GOD FOR GIVING SUCH A GOOD AND PROSPEROUS LIFE.BECAUSE  MANY PEOPLE ARE THERE IN THIS WORLD WHO NEVER SAY THANK YOU TO GOD.

      

HOW TO DEVELOP A PLEASANT PERSONALITY ???

      IN OUR DAILY LIFE WE MEET MANY PEOPLE BUT FEW OF THEM ARE VERY IMPRESSIVE .FOR THEM WE OFTEN SAY  'WHAT A PLEASANT PERSONALITY'.
FRIENDS,PEOPLE WHO HAVE THIS TYPE OF PERSONALITY THEY ARE ALWAYS HAPPY,THEY ARE RESPECTED EVERYWHERE,THEY ARE LIKED BY EVERY ONE,THEY ARE SPECIALLY CALLED IN PARTIES,EVEN THEY GET PROMOTION IN THEIR JOBS. SOMETIMES WE THINK 'I WISH I HAD SUCH PERSONALITY'.BUT DID YOU EVER REALISED YOU CAN ALSO HAVE A PLEASANT PERSONALITY.
FRIENDS,HERE I AM SHARING SOME POINTS OF AN ARTICLE WHICH CAN HELP YOU TO BECOME A PLEASANT PERSONALITY.

1. MEET EVERYONE WITH A GENUINE SMILE ON YOUR FACE :   

-  A SMILE SHOWS WE ARE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN MEETING AND WE LIKE THE PERSON WHOM WE ARE MEETING.LIKE THIS PEOPLE WILL START LIKING YOU,THEY WILL BE HAPPY TO MEET YOU.

FRIENDS,SMILEY FACES ARE ALWAYS LIKED EVERYWHERE.AND WHEN YOU WILL GIVE A SMILE OTHER PERSON WILL ALSO GIVE A SMILE TO YOU.BUT MAKE SURE YOUR SMILE SHOULD NOT BE FAKE,IT SHOULD BE GENUINE

A GREAT MAN SAID-' WHENEVER I MEET ANYONE ,I JUST THINK I M MEETING THE MOST IMP PERSON OF THIS WORLD.THIS FEELING BRINGS A GREAT SMILE ON MY FACE'.

2.GENUINELY LIKE OTHERS -  

- WHEN WE MEET ANYONE WE CREATE AN IMAGE OF THAT PERSON THAT IMAGE MAY BE POSITIVE,NEGATIVE OR NEUTRAL.BUT IF YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY ,YOU WILL HAVE TO ALWAYS MAKE THIS IMAGE INTENTIONALLY POSITIVE.WE HAVE TO TRAIN OUR MIND FOR FINDING GOOD THINGS ABOUT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING.

FRIENDS,THERE IS A LOT OF NEGATIVITY AROUND US.EVEN PEOPLE DO NOT TRUST EACH OTHER.I AM NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD TRUST BLINDLY  ANYONE BUT YOU SHOULD NOT DISTRUST EVERYONE.BECAUSE THERE ARE ALSO A LOT OF GOOD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.SO ALWAYS SEE THE POSITIVE SIDE OF EVERYONE.

3.ALWAYS KEEP "YOU" BEFORE "I" -


- WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET A PERSON WHO ALWAYS TALK ABOUT HIMSELF OR A PERSON WHO TALKS ABOUT YOUR BENEFIT AND INTEREST??

 OF COURSE YOU WOULD LIKE TO MEET FIRST ONE.EVERYBODY WANTS TO KEEP HIMSELF FIRST,BUT YOU DO DIFFERENT,ALWAYS KEEP "YOU" BEFORE "I".

I BET BY DOING THIS PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOU.

4.FIND WHAT CAN YOU APPRECIATE IN OTHERS :


- FRIENDS,IN THIS WORLD EVERYBODY WANTS TO HEAR COMPLIMENTS.AND THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO WIN OTHERS HEART .JUST FIND WHAT CAN YOU APPRECIATE IN OTHERS.BUT BE SURE THE COMPLIMENT SHOULD NOT BE FAKE AND DO NOT MAKE IT LIKE FLATTERING.

IT MUST BE TRUE OR GENUINE.AND FRIENDS IF YOU TRY TO FIND GOOD THINGS TO PRAISE YOU WILL DEFINITELY BE ABLE TO FIND MANY THINGS TO APPRECIATE.

5.HELP OTHERS WITHOUT CONDITION :

- SOMETIMES WE CAN HELP OTHERS BUT WE DO NOT HELP BECAUSE WE DONT FIND OUR PROFIT IN THAT.BUT IF YOU CAN HELP ANYONE JUST BY GIVING YOUR TIME YOU MUST HELP. BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE A POSITIVE IMAGE OF YOURS AND WILL GIVE YOU A CONFIDENCE AND SATISFACTION.
       
6.  BE A GOOD LISTENER :

-FRIENDS A GOOD LISTENER IS ALWAYS NEEDED EVERYWHERE. BECAUSE IN THIS WORLD THERE IS LAKE OF GOOD LISTENERS.AND EVERYONE WANTS AN AUDIENCE WEATHER ITS ACTOR,CRICKETER,OR A COMMON MAN,AND YOU BECOME THEIR AUDIENCE, PEOPLE WILL START LOVING YOU.

7.MAKE YOUR EXTERNAL APPEARANCE GOOD:


- HENCE OUR LOOKS PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN OUR PERSONALITY SO YOU WILL HAVE TO GIVE EXTRA ATTENTION ON THIS POINT.ALWAYS DRESS-UP ACCORDING TO OCCASION AND BE HYGIENIC AND CLEAN.WEAR POLISHED SHOES AND CLEAN CLOTHS.


              SO FRIENDS THESE WERE SOME IMP POINTS OF AN ARTICLE WHICH CAN HELP YOU TO BE A PLEASANT PERSONALITY.I HOPE THESE WILL HELP YOU.NOW YOU START PRACTICING THESE POINTS AND APPLY THEM IN YOUR DAILY LIFE.

ALL THE BEST.......

HOW TO BECOME GENIUS???

                                                                MAXIMUM PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD USE ONLY 3-5 %  POWER OF THEIR BRAIN AND THE REMAINING 95-97 % POWER THEY WASTE IN DIVAGATION.IT IS SAID THAT ONLY A FEW PEOPLE ARE BORN GENIUS BUT ANY ONE CAN BE A GENIUS BY HARD WORK AND EFFORTS.

               BUT FIRST OF ALL YOU SHOULD KNOW WHOM DO U CALL A GENIUS??

AN INTELLIGENT,SENSIBLE,BRILLIANT,PRUDENT,SAGACIOUS OR SKILLFUL OR IT MAY BE SOMETHING ELSE.

                 HERE I'LL MAKE IT CLEAR THAT HERE GENIUS MEANS THE PERSON WHO HAS ALL THE ABOVE QUALITIES.WHO IS AN EXPERT IN HIS OR HER FIELD,WHO KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT HIS OR HER FIELD.

               FOR BEING A GENIUS YOU'LL HAVE TO FOLLOW THESE STEPS WHICH ARE TAKEN FROM AN ARTICLE OF A PSYCHOLOGIST.THESE STEPS ARE -

1. STUDY IN A RIGHT WAY -  STUDY ABOUT YOUR FIELD.
2. BE CURIOUS- TRY TO KNOW ABOUT EVERYTHING.A GREAT MAN SAID THAT- 'ONE SHOULD KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT EVERYTHING.'
3. INCREASE YOUR GENERAL KNOWLEDGE- INCREASE YOUR KNOWLEDGE ABOUT SOCIAL AND GENERAL KNOWLEDGE IT WILL MAKE YOU CONFIDENT AND YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT EVERY THING
4. BE SELF CONFIDENT - TRUST YOURSELF AND DEVELOP AN UNSTOPPABLE SELF CONFIDENCE.
5. PRACTICE- IF YOU WANT TO BE PERFECT IN YOUR FIELD, NO MATTER IN WHICH FIELD YOU ARE, YOU WILL HAVE TO KEEP PRACTICING.BECAUSE ULTIMATELY 'PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT.
6. BE PRESENTABLE -FRIENDS MANY PEOPLE DO HAVE KNOWLEDGE AND TALENT BUT THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO PRESENT OR SHOW THEIR TALENT.SO YOU SHOULD KNOW HOW TO PRESENT YOURSELF INFRONT OF OTHERS.

 FRIENDS THESE WERE SOME IMPORTANT POINTS OF THAT ARTICLE.I HOPE THIS WILL HELP YOU. ALL THE BEST

HOW TO BE PRODUCTIVE???

LOVE YOUR WORK

IF YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR LIFE THAN IT'S VERY NECESSARY  THAT U HAVE TO LOVE YOUR WORK.WHEN YOU FULFILL ALL YOUR WORK AND DUTY, YOU FEEL SATISFIED BUT WHEN YOU WILL DO IT WITH CONCENTRATION AND ENTHUSIASM YOU WILL FEEL PROUD.AND BY DOING YOUR WORK AND DUTY FROM HEART AND POSITIVE ATTITUDE YOU WILL FEEL A GREAT CHANGE IN YOUR PRODUCTIVITY AND LIFE.AND WHEN YOU WILL START DOING EVERYTHING WITH THIS ATTITUDE, THIS WILL BECOME YOUR HABIT AND AFTER SOME TIME THIS WILL BE YOUR NATURE.

AND WHEN YOUR NATURE WILL BE POSITIVE AND ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT YOUR WORK AND WORKPLACE THE SUCCESS WILL SURELY COME TO YOU.
                         I WOULD LIKE TO GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE SO THAT YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THAT HOW THIS METHOD WORKS-:
FRIENDS IN DAILY LIFE YOU WILL HAVE SEEN THAT THE PERSONS WHOM WE LOVE WE ALWAYS MEET THEM WITH SMILE AND WE SEND A POSITIVE WAVE TO EACH OTHER AND THIS MAKES OUR RELATION STRONGER.AND ON THE OTHER HAND SOME PEOPLE SEND A NEGATIVE WAVE AND THIS MAKES THEIR PRESENCE UNBEARABLE EVEN WE DON'T WANNA SEE THEM.
SAME HAPPENS AT YOUR WORK PLACE IF YOU WILL LOVE YOUR WORK YOU WILL GENERATE A POSITIVE WAVE AND THIS WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY WHILE DOING YOUR WORK.AND TRUST ME FRIENDS WHEN YOU WILL BE HAPPY WHILE DOING ANYTHING YOU WILL BE MORE PRODUCTIVE AND THAT WILL MAKE YOU SATISFIED AND PROUD AT THE MOMENT AND BY DOING EVERYTHING WITH ENTHUSIASM AND POSITIVE ATTITUDE YOU WILL BE THE MOST PRODUCTIVE AT YOUR WORKPLACE.
MONTEN SAYS,"A MAN CANT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT TWO THINGS AND THOSE ARE HONESTY AND DETERMINATION."
SO FOLLOW THESE 3 RULES IN YOUR LIFE-:
1.START LOVING YOUR WORK ,NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. 
2.ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE ABOUT YOUR TASK.
3.DO NOT DELAY YOUR WORK.
   THERE IS A GREAT SAYING -
"CHAMPIONS DO NOT DO DIFFERENT THINGS BUT THEY DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY."
SO FRIENDS I HOPE MAY YOU ALL BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR LIFE.
ALL THE BEST.......